Bill Gates Reveals Melinda Gates Divorce Is His Biggest Regret in Life
Bill Gates is sharing a rare window into his personal life.
The 69-year-old reflected on the unraveling of his marriage to Melinda French Gates , more than three years after they announced their divorce .
“That was the mistake I most regret," he told the U.K. newspapers The Times in an interview published Jan. 25, later adding, "You would have to put that at the top of the list. There are others but none that matter. The divorce thing was miserable for me and Melinda for at least two years."
The billionaire Microsoft cofounder and philanthropist and his ex-wife, parents of Jennifer Gates Nassar , 28, Rory Gates , 25, and Phoebe Gates , 22, announced their divorce in 2021 after 27 years of marriage.
"There is a certain wonderfulness to spending your entire adult life with one person because of the memories and depth of things you have done and having kids together," Bill said. "When Melinda and I met, I was fairly successful but not ridiculously successful—that came during the time that we were together. So, she saw me through a lot."
Bill also credits his marriage to Melinda with contributing to his career success.
"You don’t end up with a Microsoft result, being on top of the world, unless an unbelievable number of things converge," he said. "The year I am born, the way my parents are, being a white male in the United States, having a grandmother shaping my competitive vibe, teachers who said, 'Your kid is weird but smart,' my marriage to Melinda that kept me grounded."
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Bill's interview was published eight months after Melinda resigned as co-chair of their shared charitable foundation , which was then renamed from the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation to the Gates Foundation.
"When we got divorced, it was tough and then she made the decision to leave the foundation," he said. "I was disappointed that she took the option to go off."
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In 2023, two years after he and Melinda finalized their divorce, he stepped out with his current girlfriend Paula Hurd , who was married to late Oracle Corporation CEO Mark Hurd . And Bill and his ex still remain a part of each other's lives.
"Melinda and I still see each other—we have three kids and two grandchildren so there are family events," he said. "The kids are doing well. They have good values."
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Mel & Robyn Gibson Oh Mel…in one of the priciest Hollywood divorces to date, Robyn Gibson, Mel's wife of 28 years reportedly received half of Mel's $850 million net worth , thanks to no prenuptial agreement. The couple had seven children together and according to E! News reports, the longtime duo spent two years ironing out their settlement.
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Paul McCartney & Heather Mills
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Donald & Ivana Trump Donald and Ivana married in a lavish ceremony in 1977, but divorced in 1992 amidst rumors of his reported affair with former beauty queen Marla Maples . After three children and 15 years together, Ivana reportedly received $20 million, although the settlement remains sealed by courts.
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Kevin & Cindy Costner Oh, the troubles of young love. College sweethearts Kevin and Cindy married in 1978 when the two were both still in school and divorced 16 years later in 1994. They had three children together, Annie , Lily and Joe . Cindy reportedly received $80 million in the settlement.
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Neil Diamond & Marcia Murphey Neil reportedly fell in love with the TV producer while he was still married to his first wife, Jane Posner. Marcia married the singer-songwriter in 1969, had two of his children, sons Jesse and Micah, filed for divorce 25 years later, citing irreconcilable differences, and walked away with half of Neil's earnings—$150 million. However, Neil isn't bitter; he later said that "she's worth every penny."
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Michael & Juanita Jordan After 17 years together and an attempt at reconciliation, basketball star Michael Jordan and his wife, Juanita, officially divorced in 2006. The duo tied the knot in 1989 in Las Vegas and have three children together. In a massive divorce settlement, Michael reportedly shelled out $168 million.
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Lionel & Diane Richie Lionel Richie and Diane Alexander, a former dancer and fashion designer, called it quits in 2003 after seven years, two kids and a slew of irreconcilable differences. In Diane's alimony petition, she reportedly claimed a monthly clothing allowance of $15,000 as well as a plastic surgery budget of $20,000 a year. The payout? An estimated $20 million from Richie.
Ron Perelman & Ellen Barkin
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Michael Douglas & Diandra Luker The Oscar-winning actor married the daughter of an Austrian diplomat, who was 19 at the time, in 1977, and had a son with her a year later. In 1995, Diane filed for divorce and reportedly received a $45 million settlement, as well as a share in projects related to work Michael did while they were together.
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Mick Jagger & Jerry Hall The Rolling Stones frontman married the model in 1990. Jerry filed for divorce in 1999 after she discovered Mick fathered a child with Brazilian model Luciana Morad . But after nine years together, Jerry was allegedly awarded $25 million in their divorce settlement.
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Jeff Gordon & Brooke Sealey The Daytona 500 winner married Brooke in 1994, only to divorce eight years later in 2002. Although the former couple didn't have any children together Jeff still coughed up a hefty settlement—a reported $15 million.
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