Whether you were in the process of divorcing or inspired by Gwyneth Paltrow to ‘consciously uncouple’ from a girlfriend or boyfriend, we’d love to hear from you.
Did using a therapist help you avoid a protracted (and expensive) divorce? Perhaps it allowed you to stay friends with your ex for the sake of your children? Maybe using a third party mediator allowed you to get closure on a difficult relationship? We’re looking for exes of all ages, and life stages, all over the world to share their experiences (this can be anonymously).
Share your experience
Tell us about using a counsellor or mediator at the end of your marriage or long term relationship in the form below.
Please share your story if you are 18 or over, anonymously if you wish. For more information please see our terms of service and privacy policy.
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Share your experience of using a therapist or mediator at the end of a marriage or long term relationship
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